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                The Way We Were 
                  Anglo-Indian Chronicles 
                  Edited by Margaret Deefholts and Glenn Deefholts | 
               
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          When a species becomes extinct, the world suffers an   irreparable                      loss. The same holds true for a culture.   Archeologists and                      anthropologists attempt to reconstruct the values,   language,                      and lifestyle of a lost people through artifacts and   documents,                      but nothing can capture the vitality of a society,   as can                    those who have experienced it firsthand. 
            The presence of the British in   India gave rise to a sub-culture                      that flourished for the better part of three   centuries. The                      Anglo-Indians, a hybrid people of Indian and   European descent,                      carved a unique niche for themselves in British   India. While                      their language, religion, and educational background   were                      European, they developed a style of life that   borrowed from                      both their British and Indian progenitors but jelled   into                      something that was essentially their own. After   India gained                      Independence in 1947, the majority of the   Anglo-Indian community                      emigrated to the UK, Australia, and Canada. Today   their children                      and grandchildren no longer have any psychological   or emotional                      ties with India. In addition, most of these early   Anglo-Indian                      emigrants are now elderly, and there is little doubt   that                      their cultural heritage will, within a generation or   two,                      be extinguished forever. 
            In 2004 "The Way                        We Were" was launched, inviting                      articles from across the world that described   Anglo-Indian                      culture. As we stated in the guidelines: 
            
              
                
                  “The publication,   depicting                          our Anglo-Indian way of life, will cover a broad   contemporary                          canvas. We would like to capture not only who we   were                          but how we were in all walks of life - the way   we lived,                        worked, rejoiced, loved, laughed, and cried.”  | 
                 
              
             
             Over                      80 submissions from both Anglo-Indians and non   Anglo-Indians                      were received from India, Australia, USA, UK,   Canada, New                      Zealand, and Germany. A panel of five judges   selected 42                      articles through a blind judging process, and these   now constitute                      the content of "The Way We Were".                      The anthology has been edited by Margaret and Glenn   Deefholts. 
            R. Dean Wright, Professor of   Sociology (Iowa),                      who earned a doctorate for his thesis on   Anglo-Indians, says,                      "I have looked back over the history of the   Community and                      note several 'bumps' of cultural surge, times when                      the group took its destiny into its own hands and   demanded                      it become something else. The something else was   ultimately                      a movement to become more permanent, more lasting,   to preserve                      its heritage for future generations . . . a cultural   heritage                      that uniquely identifies that group as having a life   that                      will last far beyond the life of any member . . . a   heritage                      found in the arts." To this purpose, so well   expressed                      by Dr Wright, "The Way We Were" has                      been compiled and published. It joins "Anglo-Indians: Vanishing Remnants of a Bygone Era",                      "Haunting India" and                      "Voices On The Verandah",                      a series of books about Anglo-Indians. 
            The publication of this book has   another                      vitally important and synergistic function.  The   gross proceeds                      of all sales - publishing costs are                      borne privately - will                      go directly to CTR Inc., the charity helping less   fortunate                      Anglo-Indians in India. The series thus serves a   dual purpose:                      to preserve the culture of the Community and to   provide much                    needed resources for its poorer members in India. 
            Blair Williams 
              Publisher,                       CTR Inc Publishing 
              PO Box 6345, Monroe Twp, NJ 08831,   USA 
            
              
                
                  Blair Williams, the  publisher                            of this effort, is a Chartered Engineer   (London)                            who immigrated to the USA from India in 1976.   He has                            spent the last 24 years as an executive in   manufacturing                            companies and is now an Industry Professor at   Brooklyn                            Polytechnic. He is the author of a  technical                            publication, "Manufacturing                            for Survival (Pearson 1997)". 
                    On a visit                            to India in 1998 he was appalled to see the   condition                            of the seniors of his Community, evoking the   all too                            distressing realization that, "there,                            but for the grace of God, go I."  On                            his return he set up CTR Inc., a 501c(3), 'Not   For                            Profit' charity, expressly to help indigent   Anglo-Indians                            in India. Today the charity provides monthly   pensions                            to over 230 seniors in three major cities in   India                            and is helping to educate over 100 children.  | 
                 
              
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          "The Way We Were" is a wonderful record of the rich                      history, heritage and culture of Anglo-Indians. By   raising                      funds to support the work of CTR Inc., the book not   only remembers                      the past, but also makes a vital contribution to   helping members                    of the Community in India today. 
            Alison Blunt 
              Professor, Queen                    Mary's University, London 
              Author: Domicile and Diaspora  
            
              
            
            Anyone interested in the past and present Anglo-Indian   community                    and culture will enjoy this anthology. This new book   is warmly                    recommended.
            Rosie Llewellyn-Jones 
              Indian historian and editor  
            
              
            
            "The Way We Were" says it all and keeps                    us more fortunate 'ex-India wallahs' in touch, as well   as raising                    funds and awareness, thanks to CTR.
            Hazel Craig 
              Author: Under the Old School   Topee  
            
              
            
            I received two copies of TWWW. It has a fetching look   about                    it. Shall start reading it after the Semester gets   under way. Congratulations on producing what must prove to be a   fine ,                    much needed insiders' view of the community.
            Jaysinh Birjepatil 
              Author: Chinnery's                          Hotel and Professor                    English 
              Vermont, USA  
            
              
            
            It is a beautiful book about a wonderful people.                     I am doing a piece for Desi Talk, with large quotes   from your                    preface.
            Jyotirmoy Datta  
              Senior Editor Arts 
              News India 
              New                      York, USA  
            
              
            
            Blair . . . You have been holding out! You   must                    give us lessons in thigh dancing before it's too late.   Great                    book. Wonderful essays. Will send you my enthusiastic   comments                    in full after I finish reading it.
            Stanley Brush  
              Author: Farewell the   Winterline  
              New Jersey, USA  
            
              
            
            I've been dipping into the copy of "The                        Way We Were" you so                      kindly sent me, and I must say it's a lovely   compilation,                      which I can already see will give me much pleasure.   Well                      done all concerned. 
            Among the many things I've enjoyed is David   McMahon's account                      of that fraught cross-country car journey with such a   perilous                      substitute for a fuel tank. 
            Your own recollections of Jamalpur, Blair, where I   spent                      much of my early years, accords closely with mine,   when I                      was the sole Anglo-Indian in my form at St Francis   College                      in Lucknow. Boy, did I have to struggle to compete! 
            Altogether a valuable historical record of a   vanished lifestyle,                      preserved for posterity on the very brink of its   disappearance                      from humanity's collective experience. 
            I'm already looking forward to the sequel! 
            Peter Moss  
              Author: The trilogy, 'Bye-Bye                          Blackbird', 'Distant Archipelagos' and 'No   Babylon', a prodigious number of other works, and his most recent   publication, 'The Age of Elephants'. 
              Hong Kong 
             
            This is a title of a well-known Barbara   Streisand song that fills the bill admirably as the title of a book   written by Anglo-Indians about their past lives in India before most of   them had emigrated to the UK, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and the   States when Indian Independence and Partition forced them to think   seriously about their future status in the land of their birth. 
            Each chapter points up a particular   aspect of being an Anglo-Indian and I was struck by the cheerfulness and   kindness displayed by a people who had every reason to bemoan their   fate and to hate some of the British people in India who gave them such a   bad time. They were party animals on the whole and loved to entertain   friends and strangers alike, and it must have been so hurtful when they   were rebuffed by some of the less sensitive British (and Indians). 
            I had some lovely Anglo-Indian friends   during my time  at Mount Hermon School Darjeeling in the early 1940's.   There was a warmth and humour about them that will remain forever in my   memory, and I loved the way a few of them would say, "Come on, my girl"   to me just as their mothers would say to them. It was so heart-warming   and so comforting to a little boarding school wallah. Today, in my   advancing years, I realise, too, how well-educated most Anglo-Indians   were and how nasty it must have been for them when they were looked down   upon by less literate as well as posh and prejudiced Brits. 
            The book's chapters deal with so many   aspects of Anglo-Indian life and should be compulsory reading for anyone   who has lived in pre-Independent India. Many bells will be rung and   there will be many revelations, as there were certainly there for me,   one in particular being the wonderful matriarchical stance of mothers   and grandmothers, who played such a part in the upbringing of the   children. 
            One learns too about the meals   produced in Anglo-Indian kitchens, and the disciplines practised by the   older generation in bringing up the young, all of which were closed   books to me during my time in India. Why, oh why, couldn't we have all   mixed and learned from each other? 
            Thanks to "The Way We Were" we                    are learning at last.  
            'Chowkidar'  
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                  Eulogy   and elegy on beautiful                        Anglo-Indian community scattered all over the   globe
                    
                      The Anglo-Indians, a hybrid   people of                            Indian and European descent, carved a unique   niche for                            themselves in British India.
                      By   Jyotirmoy                            Datta 
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                  "The Way We Were -   Anglo-Indian                            Chronicles", edited by Margaret Deefholts                            and Glenn Deefholts, published by Blair   Williams, CTR                            Inc Publishing, PO Box 6345, Monroe Twp, NJ. 
                     This anthology is both an   eulogy and an elegy                            on a wonderful community now scattered all   over the                            English-speaking world, facing extinction   because                            of its wide dispersal, and the stretching,   tautening                            and snapping of its India roots. 
                    The presence of the British   in India                            gave rise to a sub-culture that flourished for   the                            better part of three centuries. The   Anglo-Indians,                            a hybrid people of Indian and European   descent, carved                            a unique niche for themselves in British   India. While                            their language, religion, and educational   background                            were European, they developed a style of life   that                            borrowed from both their British and Indian   progenitors                            but jelled into something that was essentially   their                            own. After India gained Independence in 1947,   the majority                            of the Anglo-Indian community emigrated to the   UK,                            Australia, and Canada. Today their children   and grandchildren                            no longer have any psychological or emotional   ties                            with India. In addition, most of these early   Anglo-Indian                            emigrants are now elderly, and there is little   doubt                            that their cultural heritage will, within a   generation                            or two, be extinguished forever.  
                    "In 2004, 'The Way We   Were' was launched, inviting articles    from across the world that described Anglo-Indian culture. As we   stated in    the guidelines,"                            publisher Blair Williams says in the Preface.                              "The publication, depicting our Anglo-Indian                            way of life, will cover a broad contemporary   canvas.                            We would like to capture not only who we were   but what                            we were in all walks of life - the way we   lived, worked,                            rejoiced, loved, laughed, and cried."  
                    Over 80 submissions from both Anglo-Indians and   non-Anglo-Indians                            were received from India, Australia, U.S.A.,   U.K.,                            Canada, New Zealand, and Germany. A panel of   five judges                            selected 42 articles through a blind judging   process,                            and these now constitute the content of 'The                            Way We Were'. 
                    R. Dean Wright, Professor of   Sociology (Iowa), who                            earned a doctorate for his thesis on   Anglo-Indians,                            says, "I have looked back over the history of                            the Community and note several 'bumps' of   cultural                            surge, times when the group took its destiny   into its                            own hands and demanded it become something   else. The                            something else was ultimately a movement to   become                            more permanent, more lasting, to preserve its   heritage                            for future generations ... a cultural heritage   that                            uniquely identifies that group as having a   life that                            will last far beyond the life of any member   ... a heritage                          found in the arts." 
                    (Regrettably, the original   article published on the Times of India Book Review page, has   now been archived)  
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